I don’t have a formula that will create all families to stop arguing, countries to stop conquering, and political parties to achieve the more than the simple majority. Though I know to be on a workable relationship you need the large majority. People are different in so many ways and have motivations that aren’t always clear. Though you know if they truly are your friend, trust comes natural. That friendly bond allows you to be more willing to talk about issues even bring up those tough conversations, maybe even consider their radical ideas. You are able to because you know you can trust them because you trust their motives. Motives for learning, motives for living, and especially their motives for being your friend. Find someone, make them your friend for the simple reason of wanting more friends.