I should tell you that I have had every criticism and been called by every name I mean every name you can think of some of that criticism I apologized and fixed some still working on and some, well I didn’t do.

Often I hear who am I to criticize because of that even when I was the boss I heard that, so much so, I was told I couldn’t give review of my paras or ask where they were at any time.

My family has always said that I have been too critical too judgmental and treat others like children, hence I let power and praise go to my head.

There were times I thought I had a better solution and there were times I did have a better solution but then one day it rang around the world in every social media format don’t give her any credibility money or character wise. As a result I still don’t have a bank account. In addition, to ruin my credibility that a person yelled at me for cooking someone their traditional countries cooking for their birthday even after the birthday person had two helpings and complimented me or I sat just sat an entire day with nothing to do because they didn’t want me to talk to anyone or help anyone. Couldn’t even file something by the alphabet or numbers and I have a master’s degree.

So you can take what I say how you want but I do have some knowledge, experience, and expertise whether you like it or not.

Taking in as much criticism as I have I should’ve and have learned things.

•One don’t make judgments until you are absolutely certain.

•Don’t name call, regardless of what name they called you.

•If it is bad it is about me it is good it is about something or someone else.

•Stand up for the law and those occurrences that are morally and ethically right such as, no racism and equality.

I was taught as a kid if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say it at all.

I was also taught in relationships pick your battles.

As a teacher I was taught the “So what?” test and what would that behavior look like if an adult behaved that way.

Lastly as a boss I was taught criticize in private and praise in public.

However, social media has turned into suggest, accuse and criticize in public so much so I am seeing even Dolly Parton getting criticized for wearing a cheer leading outfit at 77.

I don’t know but I have found I now ask who is she not helping to get that criticism?

So in hindsight, I am just going to do my best and be respectful as I know at that moment, still learning.

As for those who still don’t think I deserve credibility or respect, it is your choice but don’t expect me to comment, probably I will just scroll by, I don’t always criticize even if constructive but if I do find you are lying I will give you the facts.

However, if you have any I mean any want to be friends again after so long apart you can say hi even criminals visitors are not necessarily accessories to crime.

They always say better to have friends than enemies.

-Jennie Nawrocki