Is it fate or coincidence?

Someone once told me the world is determined you get what you got coming.

Anything you receive you deserve

My question is when is it the other persons responsibility?

You are rude someone is rude to you

But what about

Starvation do we blame Mao or those that starved because they deserved it

Babies dying because no medical attention

A boat that rams into a bridge do the cars with humans blame themselves for driving over that bridge that day

A crack in the sidewalk the city or you for not watching where you are walking

An epidemic you not wearing a mask or patient zero

The person who received a finger or hair in their coffee bag

An genocide or slavery you for having a certain DNA, religion or preference

Domestic violence all because you said or did the wrong thing

A road disappeared due to storms

Why have lawyers, courts and HR if everything that happens to you is what GOD has planned for you

Everything bad or good that happens in your life is your fault because you deserved it

Don’t ever blame someone else you caused it all to happen to you.

But then I heard the term collateral damage

Like a pawn in a chess game in order to win you have to sacrifice

Are you to blame because you were the one sacrificed?

Isn’t human or animal sacrifice was illegal.

Seriously is this our fate and we can’t do anything or are we just collateral damage.

-Jennie Nawrocki